America loves a good story of someone “making it” — starting off in a position of disadvantage, and working their way into the higher echelons of society. The American Dream. This country is built on the notion that anyone can make it, because privilege (especially economic and social privilege) is attainable; it isn’t just something you’re born with or into.
Such captivating questions, Sy, and so tied up in our feelings, values, and lived experiences. Interesting thinking about navigating all of this with a partner, too. I wonder what percent of our family decisions or habits are made explicitly/intentionally (e.g., we are going to take this approach to celebrating children's birthdays, eating out at restaurants, talking about our various privileges) versus organically.
Such captivating questions, Sy, and so tied up in our feelings, values, and lived experiences. Interesting thinking about navigating all of this with a partner, too. I wonder what percent of our family decisions or habits are made explicitly/intentionally (e.g., we are going to take this approach to celebrating children's birthdays, eating out at restaurants, talking about our various privileges) versus organically.
Beautifully written Sy! There are parts of your story that resonate with me. Thank you for this thought post!